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I'm afraid it's going to ruin our relationship even though he's very understanding, I know he wants me to enjoy it! I'm to the point of embarrassment that I can't give him hand jobs or oral sex because it has killed my confidence.
I wish I could just find a solution ): I have tried to start opening up to giving him oral but I make him " help" so I'm not so embarrassed :/ it's ruining my life!
I just lay there ): I want to be able to give him more pleasure by "participating" but its like I don't know how because I'm not feeling anything! And the problem has been for so long that I'm not comfortable sexually I can't even let him go down on me because though I do feel that "jumpy " feeling when he comes across my clit I don't know how to act because I don't wanna just lay there in silence but I can't act like I enjoy it if I'm not.
I feel I'm only making the problem worse by closing my self out to him!
you know get on top and give him oral and feel confidence!
I hate this and I'm sorry to all you ladies who are having this same problem..:/ Reading this has been bitter sweet.
We do what we can since no doctors, so far, have helped to solve this mystery. Even when I did when I was younger, it was the same issue. In a forum, communication become lop-sided as full gravity of situation is not assessed completely. I can orgasm while riding him but it's only because of my clit getting stimulation. For me, I get no pleasure or pain when anything is inserted inside me, it's like my vag has no feeling, the only way I can orgasm is by rubbing my clit or my fiance rubbing my clit. I'm glad I'm not alone but knowing no one has found a solution to their problem is a little discouraging!
I can orgasm while riding him but it's only because of my clit getting stimulation. I've been with my husband for 6 years and sexually active 5 1/2.
I have never felt anything but numbness with occasional pain. My 6 year boyfriend understands and now when we have sex, I enjoy the closeness with him, even though I am numb down there. You may try Deer exercise if you have not tried so far. In a forum, communication become lop-sided as full gravity of situation is not assessed completely. For me, I get no pleasure or pain when anything is inserted inside me, it's like my vag has no feeling, the only way I can orgasm is by rubbing my clit or my fiance rubbing my clit.
I do however agree with what one poster suggested; self-esteem. However even before my insecurity issues, for years I had no feeling during intercourse.