Its your lunch dating
The more mature women may be interested in dating a younger guy out of sheer curiosity of what it feels like dating someone younger, and also because usually younger guys are more “agile,” active, energetic.
Being around a younger guy makes a woman feel younger as well.
If her she calls herself Lady Sarah then your email should probably begin civilly and conventionally enough with "Dear Lady Sarah." Addressing her as Mistress implies a relationship with her that you've yet to earn. And if you've created a web page as I suggested above close your email with the URL.
State clearly and specifically what - if it was anything other than propinquity - that motivated you to write to her. More than just your cravings: that is just being pushy. Courting a Domme in certain respects is much like courting anyone.
The checklist is a simple list of fetishes and kinks.
Aside from the checklist you really should have a few paragraphs describing yourself and your interests outside of D/s.
And of course, it’s not a secret that women in their thirties and forties have a much higher sex driver than the ones in their twenties.
That higher sex drive translates, among other things, into being more direct with men.
No woman is attracted to a guy who is a couch potato or who is unable to climb a set of stairs without being out of breath, especially if the woman herself is very active.
Young guys have a stronger sex drive and are naturally hungrier for a woman’s body.One last tip: don't send her a photo of your phallus unless invited to.